Sunday, August 5, 2018

Courtship
     The next part of Mom's life story she labeled:  Courtship and Marriage.  I

already posted these paragraphs in two previous posts.  I hope you enjoy them

again.

Life and Times of Bess and Bill  Blogspot

February 12, 2013 Mom's Story Valentine's Day  (or 1942)

February 25, 2013 Mom's Story Part 19 Wedding Anniversary Special

Valentines Day

Wedding Anniversary

If the links don't work, you can find them on the blog archives in 2013.
Marriage

Sunday, July 29, 2018

Mom's Story: 1940 and 1941

The latter part of February (1940) I took the train to Salt Lake City, where I enrolled in the Dietetics Course under the direction of Katherine Bilby.  I would like to say a word about her.  I was shocked when I met her because of her size.  She was about 5 feet tall and weighed close to 200 pounds.  She could hardly pull herself out of her chair and waddle across the room.  She had an assistant who was in charge of the kitchens and Miss Bilby took care of the teaching.  As I recall the classes consisted of about six students each half year.  We were housed above the laundry room –a dinky apartment with a front room, and three bedroom areas and baths and laundry room.  It was hot and steamy especially during the summer months.  Of course we had the run of the kitchen area so our meals were all taken care of.  Miss Bilby was a good teacher and she knew her dietetics, but she was often the butt of many jokes among the Dietitians and Interns. 
            The morgue was situated in the basement near the kitchens, and often at night we witnessed some of the autopsies that were performed there.  Dr Saunders was always on hand to shock us with the stories of the hospital.  I was embarrassed and used to “blush”,  which only egged him on with comments such as , “How far down does it go?”  This only deepened the “blush” for me. 
            The delivery room was on the top floor of the hospital just across from our apartment.  We witnessed a delivery or two.  In the summer months when our windows were opened we were often awakened with the noise and cries from that important part of the hospital.  Often the interns were very flippant about the mothers’ pain and would say, “Shall we call the whole thing off?”  and other smart remarks.  I’m sure the mothers did not appreciate this. 
            There is so much I could tell about my experience there in Salt Lake City, such as:   my experience in singing with the Allegro Chorus,   my many invitations to sing in Wards all over the City,   my Ward just a block from the Hospital where many of the General Authorities of the church attended,   my  roommates –many of whom were not members of the Church,  and other experiences.  I remember the boyfriend I had who was not a member of the Church.  I became acquainted with him through Mary Downs, one of my non-member roommates.  This boy, Francis Teehan, was later sent to India, and on July 17, 1941 was killed in action.  He was a bombardier.  I received a letter of condolence from the War Department.   Francis’s mother and I corresponded for several years after his death.  How sad she was to lose that fine boy. 
Lovely Affairs
            One very serious boyfriend I had at this time was Knight Kerr, whose father was a University of Utah professor.  Knight came from a very prominent Utah family, he was a brilliant man, and was serving as an instructor for the artillery in ROTC at the University of Utah.  Our romance was very serious and lasted for several years until I met Willis, who, by the way, had been one of Knight’s companions in France while serving on a mission there.  Knight took me to many lovely affairs, and I have always held the highest respect for him. 

           
After my year at the LDS Hospital, I graduated and accepted a job at the Dee Memorial Hospital in Ogden, Utah.  This was a Church owned and operated hospital of approximately one hundred beds or more, a real nice little hospital.  I was the Therapeutic Dietitian.  One interesting little incident occurred when the Interns brought a duck for me to cook for them.  They expected me to be an expert on everything.  I had never cooked a duck, had hardly ever seen one, dressed, so I went to my cookbooks to find a recipe.  I don’t think I did a very good job, at least I was never asked again, and I heard very little comment about the bird.


            I lived with a wonderful non-Mormon Irish family by the name of Tarran.  The father was a brick-layer, the mother was a wonderful homemaker whose hands were never idle.  They treated me royally, like one of their own children.  The World War II was on in full force so many of the young men were in the Armed Service, however, their son Dick, was exempt because of a hair-lip and cleft-palate.  He had had many operations to correct it and was a wonderful, courageous, kind, young man.  Our friendship was immediate and he was a good companion to me during this year.  Or course, there were hardly any young men my age left but I made many wonderful friends at the Ward.  One inspiring Gleaner leader encouraged me to get my Golden Gleaner Award.  This was just a new program in the MIA, so I did this, and was the first Golden Gleaner for that Stake and also for Snowflake Stake.  During this year, even though my salary was very low ($90 per month), I collected many beautiful things to go in my Hope Chest.  It was here that I purchased my Irish Linen tablecloth and napkins, and many of my beautiful wool blankets.  This was truly a year of growing for me. 
Golden Gleaner Pin
My Hope Chest

Sunday, July 15, 2018

Mom's Story -- College Years 3 and 4



In 1938 and 39, my third year at the University, I settled down to serious study.  I had many, too many to mention, singing experiences.  In the operetta, “The Rose Maiden,” and the vesper service “Seven Last Words of Christ,” I took the lead parts.  There were boys, but I was becoming more sophisticated and choosy. 


            In 1940 I graduated on May 29, with 468 graduates, amid all the excitement, parties, and gifts that go with college graduation.  I had been accepted in the LDS Hospital Dietetics School in Salt Lake City for their March class.  This gave me a little time to rest from school and get my feet on the ground again.  Mayola was urging me to come and stay with her in New Orleans before going into my dietetics school, so I felt that was as good as anything I could do in the meantime. 
            So it was off to New Orleans for awhile.  It was such an exciting time for me as Red’s family were very prominent, they knew the right places to go and the right people.  Mayola was very staunch in the Church, so even though it was then a struggling little Branch meeting above a filthy old pool hall, we were active.  Everyone held more than one job in the Church.  Mayola was the Relief Society President and I served in the MIA.  I secured a wonderful job at Charity Hospital, a big one-thousand-bed hospital located in the center of the city.  I was in charge of the kitchens at the Nursing Home.  It was a good job and opened a new vista of employment preparatory to my hospital training which came later. 
Charity Hospital - New Orleans
While working at Charity, I purchased my sterling silver at a cost of  $143.00 for a service for twelve in everything.  Today one knife in my sterling pattern costs $67.00.  I’ve been so proud of this, and it will be handed down to my daughters when I am gone.

            I met some exciting young men at this time, and one was special, Bill Whitehouse, a brilliant young medical student from Texas.  He was a member of the Church, but extremely busy with his studies.  Later, when I came back to New Orleans after my Dietetics Training, he was interning at Touro Infirmary, where I worked.  We were very good friends, and still are, but romance was for someone else as far as I was concerned. 



Tuesday, June 26, 2018

Mom's Story Part 20...College Year #2


       My second year at the University wasn’t such a traumatic adjustment as my Freshman year.  I was used to Dorm life and knew my way around the Campus.  I made the change in my major to Dietetics and was now enrolled in the School of Home Economics which was housed on the third floor of the old Ag building.  My professors were wonderful.  Dr. Ethel Thompson was my major professor and she took a liking to me, even invited me to her home for little luncheons and entertainments.  Here I became acquainted with Dr. Margaret Smith, (a biochemist at the University of Arizona) who with her husband (H.V. Smith) found the relationship of fluoride to reduced tooth decay.  Many of the students from St. David had mottling, which were brown patches on their teeth due to over abundance of fluorides in the drinking water.  However, these same students had no tooth decay.  This led to the discovery of fluorides to protect teeth from decay.  Years later my husband tried desperately to get fluoride added to the drinking water in Snowflake to protect the children’s teeth but an uninformed and uneducated citizenry blocked the effort.
           
These wonderful professors were not only well qualified in their fields but were warm-hearted women.  They were impressed that I was spending much of my time singing at functions around the campus, and every party they staged I was asked to entertain with my singing.  My music took me to places dietetics would never have done.  Dr. Pease saw to it that I had every opportunity to sing that I wanted.  I sang several times at the Assemblies on the Campus, a time or so on the radio, and at Interdenominational Regional Council Conventions.  One exciting performance was a song cycle in which I took the soprano part called “In a Persian Garden.”  It was a beautiful piece of music and I had worked hard on it.  There is a little story connected with this I’d like to tell:  To supplement my income of $25.00 per month from home, I secured a job at a little book store a few blocks off campus, where I spent several hours a day straightening and dusting the books.  The owners and operators were a little Scottish couple, Mr. and Mrs. Robin Hunter, whom I grew to love very dearly.  They literally adopted me, as they had no children of their own, and became intensely interested in all my activities.  Of course, they were on hand to hear my performance of “In a Persian Garden,” and afterward presented me with a beautiful copy of “Rubaiyat of Omar Khayyam,” which was the text of the song cycle.  I still treasure this little book.  I remember also that Mother came to Tucson to hear the performance, as well as check on my activities. 

            Besides the excitement of school and the numerous singing engagements I was enjoying, I had many wonderful boyfriends to occupy my thoughts.  Stanley Cardon, a graduate student working on his Masters Degree in English, was without a doubt the most serious suitor.  I think Mother’s visit to Tucson was to check him out as well as to hear me sing.  I suppose the Lord had his arm around me during those precarious college years, for before the year was out, Stan had been called on a mission to Switzerland, and even if we thought our love could withstand separation, it proved to be not the right thing for either of us. 
            Another young man who I feel played a part in my life at that time was Bill Moran, a cripple, who had had osteo mylitis which had left him with almost useless legs.  However, he got around beautifully on crutches.  In Salt Lake, Dr. Lowell Bennion had been a close personal friend of Bill’s, and invited him to spend the winter in Tucson feeling the warm weather would be good for him.  In the close feeling we enjoyed at the Institute, Bill and I became very good friends.  He had so many fine qualities which I admired, and even though I have lost track of him over the years, I shall always be grateful for his love and understanding during those turbulent college years.
           
Another job I held during this second year was waiting on tables for a professor’s wife, who cooked for winter visitors.  She was an excellent cook but needed extra help at meal time to wait on the tables and clean up the kitchen afterwards.  This paid for my board during this year at college.  It was through my college professors I was able to secure this job. 
            Mother and Dad had many trials during this time also.  My sister Mayola had married and was living in New Orleans, my sister Louise was struggling with her courses at Flagstaff.  But perhaps the greatest challenge was Grandpa Smith who had suffered several strokes, which left him confused and mixed up.  Mother kept Grandpa for many years before he died, and for part of this time she kept Grandpa Rogers as well.  The years have taught me to appreciate her great sacrifice incaring for her parents, and the nobility of her soul to do so under such trying circumstances. 
New Orleans
            It was June 1938, after finishing my sophomore year, that our family took our first trip to New Orleans.  Dad and Mother and Louise picked me up in Tucson.  It was a time of chattering the entire way down and back, telling my family all about my wonderful new experiences in a big city and a big school.  Red and Mayola could not do enough for us to show us the sights of that beautiful old Southern City.  I shall never forget Mayola as she led us out of the city on our way back home, and when she stopped to tell us goodby the tears streamed down her dear face, in loneliness and love.   

It has been a long time!

   
 It has been five and a half years since I published an issue of this blog.  I have had a lot of changes in my life during this time but now things have settled down and I would like to continue the story. 
Mom and her girls 1960
     My mother, Bess Rogers Ericksen, wrote (in 1981) a delightful life story and presented a copy to each of us, her children.  I would like to take each "chapter" and publish it in this blog format.  Hopefully my sons and daughters, my grandchildren, and my nieces and nephews and their children will have a quick minute to read one chapter.  It will help them understand who she was. 
     I will continue with her second year in college.  She attended the University of Arizona in Tucson.  The year is 1938.  **in February of 2013,  I published a post about Mom and Dad's wedding as an anniversary special...it was "out of order" and I will now go back to where I left off in telling the story.**